1. I think that we can all agree that men: think with their penis. If it is said that a woman decides in 10 minutes if she wants to sleep with you or not…then a man decides within the first 1.1 seconds. With that being said, quite honestly a women must realize the messages she’s sending to us and our penis. Flirt with our mind…visual imagery of your body should be via our imagination…Seems like a lot of women forget that some of you are damn near naked.
2. You really need to be honest with yourself…and the people you interact with. Are you just dating us or are you dating us with a purpose. Are you looking for “the one”. If so, then you should make that clear. The bottom line is you aren’t fooling anyone. We are dumb but we aren’t stupid.
3. In dating I think you should never dumb yourself down…I think when matched with us, if you think of a “good to great” caliber then you should step your game up. Treat us like you want to be treated. I think a lot of women think we have to prove something to you. I’m sorry but some of us are probably just a rare commodity as you and be certain that we realize it. You dont have to kiss my ass but we should impress each other.
4. Recognize what about me attracts you and interests you … People are so quick to date a person for the wrong reasons 1. Looks 2. Style 3. Assets 4. Social position. You allow that one aspect to be your “Dream guy”! Start looking for a combination of qualities you need instead of getting caught up in 1 aspect. Wake up baby!
5. Are you losing faith in us?…Theres a good chance that…IT’S YOU…look in the mirror and allow reality to punch you in the face. What was wrong with the last few dudes you dealt with? Did you know it at the onset? Do you think you can change us or make excuses and or compromises for us? Did you think “man I should’ve walked months ago but stayed? Clearly you lost faith in your ability to make a smart decision…gain faith in YOURSELF, adjust and make smarter decisions.
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