Advice

If you don’t think every day is a good day, try missing one. – Cavett Robert If you’re feeling ungrateful or sorry for yourself, change your attitude ASAP! Your problems are not as big as you think. Everyday is a new opportunity to change and grow. Plus, there are people who are doing more with […]

If something small has the power to anger you, doesn’t that say something about your size? – Anon The things you give your attention to grow. The more you focus on insignificant people/situations, the smaller YOU become. Think about it, successful people have achieved greatness because they are focused on the BIGGER pictures. Don’t let […]

Turn your wounds into wisdom.  ~Oprah Winfrey Believe it or not, you were not put here to suffer. Everything you go through in life (whether good or bad) is designed to teach you a lesson. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, learn from the experience and use it to become a better person. Don’t let […]

Well done is better than well said.  ~Benjamin Franklin People will judge you by what you DO, not by what you say. Without ACTION your dreams are something you’ll only experience while you’re sleeping. Instead of bragging about what you’re “going to do,” let you work speak for itself. It’s good to be a dreamer, […]

“Don’t pray for lighter burdens, pray for a stronger back” – Author Unknown LIKE Us On Facebook HOT 107.9 Philly When things get tough, don’t give up because the old saying is still true today: “What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.” Remember, the things that come easy usually don’t last and the things that […]

“The only time you should look down on someone is when you are helping them get up.” – Jesse Jackson LIKE Us On Facebook HOT 107.9 Philly Instead of clowning someone for being wrong, teach them the right way. Never ignore an opportunity to do good. Karma is real and the good you do for […]

Tank was interviewed by Rolling Out recently and here is what he had to say when asked for “5 Things That Make Every Woman Sexy” Confidence: It’s going to be in your walk, in your posture, how you hold out your hand to introduce yourself, how you hold your head high like a queen. Take […]

Are you looking for that last minute Mother’s Day Gift that says Mom I appreciate you? We all love our Moms, I mean you only get one. Mother’s Day is right around the corner and I know some of us have busy schedules and have yet to purchase a gift for Mom. Now you know […]

Beyonce may be just naturally sexy but she does put fourth extra effort to be even sexier for her husband Jay-Z. During a recent Cosmo interview the sultry singer gives advice on how to feel and be sexier around your spouse. “You should put on good music and something that makes you feel great. I […]

As a celebrity hairstylist, Barry Fletcher has tamed the mane of beautiful celebrities such as Halle Berry, Tina Turner, Mary J Blige, Chaka Khan and Patti LaBelle, just to name a few. His first book, Why Are Black Women Losing Their Hair?, dealt with what was literally on Black Women’s minds, how to properly care […]

Dear Ask The Black Man, My boyfriend and I are expecting a child soon. We love each other but recently I decided to end our relationship. We live far from each other and we haven’t really been talking lately. He asked me to move in with him but I want to get my life together […]

Dear Mr. Ask The Black Man, I am a 53-year-old man who has not had a date in the last few years. When I meet women and  they find out I am 53  they tell me that I am too old. Most of the women I meet feel the age difference which can be from […]